A sample daily routine for your toddler
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As the parent of a toddler, you know how challenging these years can feel - simply getting through a full day can be tough at times, am I right? Toddlers are notoriously known for their strong-willed personalities, big emotional swings, and testing of boundaries. They can also be SO sweet and so fun to be around, as they truly come into their own in these early years. As usual in parenting, multiple conflicting emotions can be felt at once!
Physiologically-speaking, a toddler’s brain, particularly the areas that control executive functioning (things like planning, decision-making, impulse control, and focus) are still under major development in the early years. This means that toddlers will struggle with all of these types of skills - and that’s normal! However, it also means that they can show up with big feelings, long tantrums, and overall difficulty getting through parts of their day, which can in turn, make our job as parents/caregivers, feel very difficult.
One of the BEST things you can provide as a parent or caregiver for a toddler is a consistent daily routine. Why? Because predictability helps your child’s brain feel safe and secure, therefore leading to easier transitions, a better mood, and an overall happier child…. And who wouldn’t want that?!
Let’s take a look at what an example of a daily routine for a toddler (2-4 years old) may look like for a day at HOME:
Wake up
Eat breakfast
Get dressed, brush teeth, use potty
Independent play time
Morning outing or activity (park, errands, play group, craft, etc)
Eat lunch
Nap or quiet time
Afternoon snack
Afternoon activity (structured play, outdoor time, errands, etc)
Independent play and/or screen time
Eat dinner
Play time
Start bedtime routine (bath, potty, brush teeth, pajamas, etc)
Goodnight!
Next, let’s look at an example of what a daily routine may look like for a toddler who attends DAYCARE/SCHOOL:
Wake up
Eat breakfast
Get dressed, brush teeth, use potty
Go to daycare/school
Come home from daycare/school
Afternoon snack (Optional, depending on what time your child arrives home)
Structured play, if time allots
Independent play and/or screen time
Eat dinner
Play time
Start bedtime routine (bath, potty, brush teeth, pajamas, etc)
Goodnight!
The most important thing to note for both routines is that the exact time that each activity takes place is less important than the overall flow of the day. Every family is going to be on a different “schedule”, but we can always create a daily rhythm for the day. And remember - some days your routine will be off, and that’s okay!
If your toddler is having trouble transitioning between parts of their day (for example, from independent play to the potty, or from screen time to dinner time), a visual timer can work wonders in the toddler years. This lets your child “see” how much time is left before they are expected to go from one thing to the next. You can let them help you set it, then give them advance warning about what exactly is going to happen when the timer goes off. For example, you can say “When the timer beeps, we are going to say good-bye to our trucks and go into the bathroom”.
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